Wash Brushes, Carry Water
Lisa Miller
I’ve had a total mind-shift about something quite elemental and essential in the artist’s studio: Paint Brushes.
For the longest time, I’ve avoided washing my brushes. I might have even said on occasion that I hate washing brushes. Hate? Such a strong word. But more often than not, my oil and acrylic paint-soaked brushes would frequently accumulate like dry autumn leaves gathered next to the tub of my shiny stainless steel sink in my studio. Sometimes, with good intentions, I’d leave them soaking in turpentine or a jar of water. Occasionally in a ziplock bag since I mean to get to them the next day. But the truth is, they lay there with paint drying hard as nails. For weeks on end, they stack up and I forget about them.
I also have twice the ‘normal’ amount of brushes, since for the years we lived in two houses, I had two studios, both well-stocked with brushes. So when we pandemic-moved to one house in California, I combined everything like Noah with his Ark, and ended up with quite a collection. With all those brushes, since I’m not forced to clean them out of sheer necessity, you only can imagine how deep under water I can get.
I’ve tried to change my ways! I’ve even tried to micro-manage myself into obedience. I’d put “clean brushes” as a line-item on my to-do list, endeavoring to motivate myself into a routine studio cleanup on Fridays, telling myself how happy I’ll be when I have all clean brushes on a Monday morning. But Friday comes and goes and the dirty brushes remain. The fact is, it’s just not fun to clean brushes. I’d rather spend my precious studio time creating, painting, and exploring the new.
So what happened? What was the shift? It had to do with time. And making a decision. One late-afternoon, I had run out of time to have a full-fledged studio session. But I had one hour and I wanted to have something to show for it. Something that would serve my painting that I had slated for the next day. So I decide to put on a friend’s podcast that I hadn’t yet had time to listen to. And I decided to wash my brushes while I listened.
It was pure magic. I donned my rubber gloves and turned on the faucet, and started one by one lathering the bristles and massaging them in the palm of my hand, and rinsing them ’til the water ran clean, gently smoothing the brushes and placing each one - one next to the other - on a clean towel to dry. I was totally absorbed in cleaning the brushes. I began to enjoy each brush for its uniqueness, noticing the color that lathered up as I remembering which painting begat that particular shade of paint. It was a visual treat. A gift for my busy mind to slow down and let my hands take the reins for a while. Suddenly, cleaning brushes became a meditation. A respite from that all-to-common daily life where I’m constantly pushing to get more done. But I was actually doing it now. Fully awake and aware and I was in heaven.
I was also totally present for my friend’s podcast. Rather than listening to it in stops and starts, 20 minutes here when I jump in the car for a quick errand, and 30 minutes there while I cook dinner, I experienced the entirety of my friend’s creation. I was open and porous - to better to receive her message and her insights. It went deeper in me. And isn't that what matters? The way we want to live? To actually be available for our lives while we are living them. To be touched by the food of our impressions, the media and music and movies that we so carefully curate, in-order to actually feed our souls and fill our inner wells with substance.
The next day, when I walked in to my studio - I felt joy and excitement - eager to pick up again with paintings I’d been working on. I turned on the lights and lit a candle. And before me was a full orchestra of clean brushes standing at attention, as if awaiting the arrival of the concert mistress, poised for her to play the first note. I was prepared to serve the gift - to open myself to the creative spirit and allow it to flow through me.
Now, amazingly enough, I love cleaning brushes! I look forward to my brush cleaning sessions. They never stack up and sometimes for fun I even just clean a few - like dropping into a short cat-cow series to warm up the body - for that same feeling of aliveness.
It is rare that we do what we are doing while we are doing it. But when we do - it ceases to become a chore - and becomes something greater. Something sacred. My husband recently told me about his Benedictine Monk-friend who lived at a monastery high on the hills above Big Sur, and a time he made the windy drive propelled by a yearning for spiritual direction. To his surprise, when he arrived, he found his friend working in the kitchen. And instead of the usual profound wisdom, the Monk wanted to talk about how he was absolutely passionate about Washing Dishes. That with each plate, each cup, he gave his full attention to make them as clean as possible. He imagined his fellow Monk and his great enjoyment of drinking his tea from that very clean mug.
That way of thinking is what makes for a good life. And it occurs to me that I have an opportunity at every moment to look at life from that perspective. When I do, I live in the flow. I feel connected to that universal life force that is divinely orchestrated for us to be exactly where we are supposed to be, having the exact experience we need for our soul’s fulfillment, at this exact moment in time, in our lives.
Here’s 10 of my favorite podcasts to dialogue with your paint brush cleaning or anything else you want to make into a sacred time and practice in your life:
1. Reclaiming Consciousness - my breathwork teacher whose podcast inspired this blog post
2. Life Activated - really refreshing voice in the spiritual podcast realm
3. The Soft Focus - a brand new podcast that I’m super excited about
4. Expanded - oldie but goodie about inner work and personal growth
5. Goop - sign me up for literally anything with Gwyneth
6. Art Juice - two relatable artists talking about creative work and life
7. About Art - intelligent conversations about the power of art and creativity
8. Chakra Coach - subtle energy and chakras, informing a project I have in the works
9. Rick Rubin on On Being - Magic, Everyday Mystery and Getting Creative
10. Julia Cameron on The Good Life Project - Living The Artist’s Way